I'll be out doing the shopping and darned if I don't see guys walking several feet in front of their ladies. Not with them, not holding hands, but out in front with their ladies trailing behind...
Then I see men walking through the doors and never even offering to hold the doors for the ladies. They even let the door shut in their faces.
Then it's up to the ladies to do all the shopping themselves while their guys stand with scowls on their faces like their being impositioned. Sometimes I even hear the guys making rude remarks about how long it takes. To me they sound as bad as little children.
I also see guys get in their cars and never open the door for their ladies to get in and seated, let alone help them put the groceries in.
What the heck ever happened to respect for ladies???
What ever happened to a man being a man?
Why do ladies tolerate being treated like this?
Is this the way the ladies wish to be treated today?
Maybe I'm old fashioned or whatever but when I hold a door for even a stranger who is a lady, she smiles and thanks me.
I was taught manners and I still have them and use them.
So, am I wrong? Has the world moved beyond manners to a world where a guys lady has to do and fend for herself? Is this that evolution junk they teach about?
Then to top this off I hear guys yelling at their ladies and calling them all kinds of ignorant names. Names I'm kinda sure would start a fight if someone used on their mothers.
At least I hope they would!
What surprises me even more is that women tolerate it all. What did their mothers teach them? Heck what did they learn from their fathers???
Were their fathers treating their mothers like that so now they think that's the way it should be?
Well, I'm an old redneck kinda guy and when I see this crud going on I tend to scowl at the offensive butt heads. What is kinda funny is that I get bad looks from them but they never have the nerve to confront me. But I am older, much bigger than most of them and I do have that cane I need to get around without stumbling. Or maybe its the bad boy biker look and the big beard...
Heck, I'd love for one of those jerks to take a poke at me. I'd gladly go straight to jail for smacking them up side their heads. I'd feel no shame as a judge would do his thing and pass the laws bad judgment against me for standing up for morals. But I'd darned sure feel better!
I haven't yet opened my big mouth and given any of those jerks a piece of my mind, but I'm real sure that one day I'll be in a bad mood and it'll happen!
Would you stand up for a woman in any of these situations?
How do you feel women should be treated, like a lady or worse than a dog?
I don't know. These guys treat women like crud and they have someone. I try and treat them decently and I'm alone... I just don't get it...
OK, I vented. I lightened that load a bit and now, I'm gonna go find something to make me smile.
Why not leave some comments about this crud and then do the same.
I'm not even trying to say anyone should, really you shouldn't. But, if you should lay one of these types of butt head jerks out, smile while your doing it and even though you'll probably go to jail for it, come back and let me know so I can share in your pride for doing the right thing, even though it is probably “legally” wrong!