Hey Guys, Wake Up

OK guys! You've got 3 weeks and 4 days left until Valentines Day...

You know the nicest places book up early so you had better call and make reservations now!

Or maybe your going to cook a nice dinner for her. Better get that menu planned and that shopping list made... Oh, and don't forget that bottle of her favorite wine!

Now look, if your not a really decent cook don't even attempt it.

And... You do all the clean up and the dishes! I just don't think it would make her very happy to find that there are strings attached to a nice dinner...

Don't forget to line up that baby sitter if you need to. Ya don't want that to get in the way of her special evening do ya?

If your getting her a gift, you'd better start planning and find it!

Maybe even get it early and put in on layaway. You know if ya take it home she'll probably find it... But you could leave it at work or in the trunk of your car. Maybe hide it in the garage if ya have one. But women do seem to have that extra sense that tells them to look, so better make it a darned good hiding place...

Then there is the box of her favorite chocolates too. And don't forget the rose...

Then there's that card... Make sure it says something really nice that reflects your true feelings for her...

Maybe some dancing! You may not like it to much but most women do. Remember how that belly rubbin stuff used to make her? Put your feelings aside, this is for her. Do this for her and who knows what she may do for you...

How about a movie? Now I know most of us can't stand chick flicks but... She likes them. So I'm sure you could sit through one for her. Just bite the bullet and smile. And talk nice just like ya did when you were dating and still trying to impress her.

You should still be doing that ya know...

OK, so don't say I didn't warn ya. There is some time left, but you can save yourself a ton of trouble if ya plan and prepare now...

YOU take care of all the prep and plans and who knows, you may again become that prince charming you once were in her eyes.

But, whatever you do, DON'T FORGET!

Women like talking about their guys with their friends. You forget, your dead meat! Even those friends of hers will pass on the news that the idiot she's married to or dating is a jerk and forgot! Or was a cheap useless piece of dirt!

You give her something real special and she'll be so happy and so proud of you that when she does talk, she'll beam like the August sun! Her girl friends will envy her, her guy friends will be jealous as heck that they didn't think of it. You in short will be a “hero”...

I've given ya a few ideas now use them or come up with your own but just do not forget!

Now for today... Why not call her during lunch or a break? Ask her for a date on Friday night. It may sound corny but she'll probably enjoy it. Even if it's just out to eat. She just needs to feel appreciated and who knows, she may just start feeling that desire for you that she once did. Hey, isn't it worth a try?

Wouldn't you like to have that girl back? Well, you start being that guy she met and adored. It may take some time but it will probably work. She's going to be a skeptic for a while, but she'll come around if she sees your sincere. You do get that, if you bring back some of that romantic stuff, that some of the fun stuff will probably come back too.

Heck, you both may start to feel like a couple of teens in heat again. Isn't that worth trying for? You really may find yourselves falling in love all over again.

Now just go and do it. Good luck and have a great time!

Later Romeo...