Get A Clue

Why is it so tough to ask for what you want? Why do we always feel as if we must hint and give clues when we already know that clues don't work... Then we get angry with someone when they don't get it...

Clues and hints never work. They need to be driven in with a sledge hammer. Minds are to small for clues and hints, there simply isn't enough room in a small mind. Clues and hints are given by a partner who gets angrier when they are not figured out, how can a sweating, worried mind fearing for it's safety and life figure out a clue or a hint.

Then we also never seem to learn that hints and clues don't work. So we get angry and exact our revenge! We sit and eat an entire box of chocolates or an entire pack of Oreo's, that'll teach them. We devour an entire chocolate cake, that'll show them not to take us so lightly. Heard tales that grandma would put starch in his undies, that'll stiffen his thought and make him aware...

Life is not a game! Clues and hints are games or things for experienced detectives. In the course of life very few will become experienced enough to see the meanings of hints and clues. Others realize your giving them hints and clues, but their minds are so confused with what they have done or didn't, that seeing the answers to hints and clues is beyond their temporary scope if intelligence. Possibly even their scope of intelligence...

If hints and clues are really no more than a game then why play? Do you really want something? Then really ask for it! Is your friendship or love built on clues or hints? No! It's real. Any relationship is supposed to be open and honest. Supposed to be trusting and accepting.

So why do you feel you can not come right out and ask for what you want. Do you want that gift for your birthday, anniversary or Christmas? Then be open and honest and ask for it. Do you want to go out for dinner and a dance? Then ask and you'll probably receive. Do you want more starch in your shorts? Unless you my friend are a glutton for punishment, better listen...

Would you like to try something different or unusual? Ask, maybe they're afraid to try because they fear they may upset you. Maybe they too would like a bit of change or added spice in their life. If your depending on hints and clues, they will never overcome the fear...

Afraid yourself to ask? How about bringing it up in light hearted, witty conversation. Once you get a feel for how they feel about it you can decide to get serious or drop it. If it seems it's accepted, something they may want to try as well, settle into deeper conversation. Then thrill them by looking straight into their eyes and saying what it is you want in the most serious and sensuous way.

People are just not born to be mind readers. I seriously doubt that true mind readers exist. Even if they do, could they possibly be able to read minds after a hard grueling day of work and putting up with all kinds of people? Could they still read a mind after chasing down energetic, unruly children, doing the housework, running the home, and slaving over a hot stove making dinner?

Nope! Get to the point. No clues and not one hint. Just ask for what you want.

Now about those supposed mind readers... Could you possibly imagine if one would be real just how much reading my mind would mess with theirs???

Heck, even I don't know whats coming out of my mind from one second to the next!

I may be thinking about flowers one second. In they very next moment I might be swearing at that danged old tractor and it's habit of leaking oil from another spot. Then the next about a lovely woman running her hands through my hair and whispering in my ear with sweet words carried on warm breath. Then on to making a salad for my next meal! Or who can I sponge a meal from...

Why that mind reader would need a psychiatrist before he was done reading my mind and his would never be the same! Just stumbling into walls and freaking out because his mind would be so cluttered with junk...

Well, have a great day and smile! Remember, ask for what you really want and do it with love.

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